Thanks for reading my life story and while it was a difficult period, it was also a period where I learnt a lot about myself.
To achieve success in anything significant in life, it requires a routine that is both powerful and has a positive
impact in your life.
I will be personally sharing some of the best advice and resources on this list after experiencing many failures,
setbacks and successes because I would like to benefit as many people as I can so that when I leave this world
I left it better than it was before I came.
The best advice I got from a mentor was having clarity in life. Clarity is power and knowing your why and purpose in life builds that’s clarity.
1. Are you living your dream or someone else’s dream for you?
Life is too short to be living out someone else’s dream on behalf of others. If you are doing so, you have not found your why in life. This was so profound and simple that it hit me like a truck. This routine was so important that every once in a while, I will have a short getaway trips just to escape from the demands of life just reflect on my life and refine my “why” in life.
In the book by Simon Sinek, Start With Why, shows how the biggest game changers in the history of mankind knew their why clearly. Think Apple, wright brothers, Martin Luther King, Abraham Lincoln. They act, think, talk differently from the rest.
While Simon kept emphasizing on knowing your why, when it comes to figuring it out on your own. It can get very board. So in case if you are having difficulty with finding out your purpose or “why” in life, it is always disguise as a “what” first.
2. What do I want in life?
The answer becomes your desired result.
3. What do I not want?
The answer becomes the situation you do not want to be in.
4. Why do I want this desired result?
5. Why do I not want to be in that situation? (Take the answer from Qns 3 and ask why)
So when you are feeling demotivated, fearful or overly comfortable with your life, ask yourself this:
6. If I keep doing what I am doing for the next year, the next 5 years and 10 years, how will my life be if I keep doing it?
Visualize it and see the details of it with the emotions.
7. Am I getting closer to the results I want or am I getting future away from it and becoming what I do not want to become?
8. What should I do to change the direction and get to the results I want?
This questions are designed to get you to think and be true to your inner self.
Take the answers you wrote to yourself and heed it because that is you committing to yourself and loving yourself.
Look out for the next email on goals and setting it correctly.
Sent with Love