Have you ever thought about the reason why you matter?
It seems the world is so big. There are more than 7 billion
people on earth. So how can you stand out? What do you have
to offer? What do you have to contribute that matters?
You are properly struggling with this emotional pain;
self-doubt, insecurity, fear of not belonging, feeling puny
and being insignificant.
It is not your fault, and you most certainly are not alone.
We live in a society that enjoys picking on the minority or people they feel are
Sadly, many of us are living among these minority groups
where the color of one’s skin, gender inequality, religious
background and other norms, seems to be the measure in which
some groups are marginalized by a society that values one
idea over the other.
Now the world might not acknowledge your worthiness;your
family and friends may not adequately communicate the
importance of your existence in their lives, and you might
feel you have nothing that matters.
However, the truth is that YOU MATTER and from the bottom of
my heart, here are the reasons why.
Being YOU is What Makes The Difference
You are enough! Maybe you have no skills, no knowledge, and
Maybe you think that you are not good enough, smart enough,
and not great or perfect at doing things.
But no matter the number of permutations and combinations
plus genetic experiments, there is no one that can be like
It is because you are valuable. You have an individual
purpose that cannot be compared with others.
As long as you stop comparing yourself to others; as long as
you stop doubting your endowed abilities, you will see that
you are the amazing creation blessed with amazing blend of
unique gifts; above your self-imposed limitation.
“No matter who you are, you can provide value. We each
have an individual purpose. Always Believe in You.” ~ Brooke Griffin
You Have a Gift That Others Need
There are people who get their problems solved just because
If you did not exist, those people who need your help, would
never be helped.
Without your presence, those people, who would have made
their lives better will lose this opportunity forever.
You do matter in ways you never imagined.You can throw more
light on a situation that no one else can possibly provide.
You cause a rippling effect just by giving a helping hand;
just by taking a little action.
Your solution enables people to achieve a fulfilled life,
and this spreads to their families and their entire
generation until it becomes a legacy or philosophy.
Now, some people may not like you; some people might even
detest you, and that is ok because you truly cannot please
However, those whom you have been called to make a
difference and be of service will cherish your existence and
“Never forget that you are one of a kind. Never forget
that if there weren’t any need for you in all your
uniqueness to be on this earth, you would not be here in the
first place. And never forget, no matter how overwhelming
life’s challenges and problems seem to be, that one person
can make a difference in the world. In fact, it is always
because of one person that all the changes that matter in
the world come about. So be that one person.” ~ Buckminster Fuller
Your Voice Does Matter
Why would anyone decide to make the greatest impact in your
Why would anyone want to provide you with guidance,
direction, and coaching – to enable you to achieve your
goals and biggest desires?
I will tell you why.
It is because of their sincere belief in you. In words and
action, they show you that you matter; they believe in your
You do have a unique message and voice. This is what people
know as a STORY.
Yes! Everyone does have a story, including you. No one can
tell your story better than you.
Your story has the power to make a difference, to build up
courage, to leave a mark, to make people overcome their
limitations, and to make someone feel belonged.
The world is waiting for your life changing lessons. Your
pain, conflict, heartache, and passion are challenges that
can be turned into a life lesson and be shared with
Do you know that there are people who are listening to you
and you have caught their attention? Think about this.
“The one thing that you have that nobody else has is
you. Your voice, your mind, your story, your vision. So
write and draw and build and play and dance and live as only
you can.” ~ Neil Gaiman
Your Presence Automatically Liberates Others
You do not have to be on the center stage to make a
difference. The reason is simple;
There is somebody out there that is proud of you; thinking
about you; cares about you; wants to talk to you; misses
you; celebrates your success; wants to hug you; believes you
are a blessing; admires your strength and courage; values
your wisdom; treasures your spirit; can’t wait to see you;
has faith in you and trusts you so much.
Your existence is a sparking light to so many people. There
are people in your life that you inspire.
“There are people in your life that you inspire…People
that see all your best qualities… People who want to be more
like you… People who don’t understand how you can’t see all
this yourself… Try seeing yourself as they do… See yourself
for the amazing creation that you are…” ~ simonboylan
You are Influential and the Change Which the World So Desires
Ever wondered what a football match would be without the
Ever wondered how a presidential speech would turn out
without the people of the nation.
Ever wondered what a cause would be without supporters.
Ever wondered how celebrities would come to be without
Ever wondered how like-minded individuals would exist
You are an influence, whether you believe it or not. You are
the change because your small encounters do matter.
The moments that you create are what make the world a better
As you teach others your passionate skill sets the goal.
As you set a good example and show others positivity in a
As you show others your determination and doggedness to
success by taking advantage of failure.
As you let your light shine, you unconsciously give light to
others to become thought provoking leaders, professional
champions, peace makers, renewed activist, creative
personalities, renowned business men, awesome mothers,
wonderful fathers and revolutionaries.
Let’s not forget that you are also changing your world by
applying your wisdom to tackle the world’s problems.
“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed
citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is only one that
ever has.” ~ Margaret Mead.
You Can Make A Difference
Yes! You want to help; you have a cause that will benefit
You might be an introvert; you might not have enough skill.
You might not have the resources.
You may not have the charisma of leadership. You might not
even know what you are doing, but there is something inside
you that is so powerful.
You have an inner voice to propel you to action, which is
the greatest currency in the world.
It is this action that defines your impact.
It is this action that makes you step away from the things
you love, which gives you comfort and forges you towards
giving support to humanity.
It is this action that enables you to make a difference and
become an inspiration, even though your journey is full of
“Anyone who thinks that they are too small to make a
difference has never tried to fall asleep with a mosquito in
the room.” ~ Christine Todd Whitman
The Most Powerful and Happiest Truth is That You Matter.
Now, you do know that you matter. Never let anyone make you
I would like you to reach out to someone and let them know
that they matter. Remember that a word is enough to make a
To your success